3 Things To Leave Behind Before 2020

Leave that sh*t behind, it’s the beginning of a new flippin’ decade!!

I can’t believe how fast this year went by tbh. It was by far, one of the best and worst year somehow.

I won’t deny it I was quite happy with the way this year started, but then all good things come to an end so that there is space for GREATER things. 

There are a few things that we all need to say goodbye to in 2020; I’m sure you all can relate, so let’s begin, shall we? 

Bye-bye toxic relationships

Ugh, we’ve all had them. 

Some of us are still entertaining them, hoping for it to turn around into something good. But tbh in my personal experience, toxic people or relationships never get better at least not instantly.

So for now, you have to let it go. Holding on to something like that can ruin your quality of life and can make you feel like you’ve lost your way.

Cut out people who don’t add value to your life, it’s not always easy, but it needs to be done. 

Stop caring about what people say 

Do WHATEVER it is that you want. Not things that can damage your health or mental state but things that make you feel alive.

Please don’t stop being yourself only because no-one validates it. We live in a world where we seek validation from everywhere.

Especially social media. I want you to know that it’s okay to work on your timeline, no-one is posting their failures online. Whatever you see on Instagram is filtered reality.

I need to keep reminding myself that too now and then cause quite frankly it can get to you. 

Just an hour before me writing this blog post, something that I saw online got to me. So it’s okay we’re all humans, we’re allowed to feel that way too, but PLEASE know that it’s not real.. 

No more fear 

You definitely can’t let fear control you in 2020. Fear has a weird control over our lives, and it’s time to say goodbye to it.

Whatever scares you, go after it – it’s the only way you’ll face your fear, it’s the only way you’ll feel alive. I have a small list of things that scare me, and I plan on checking it all off in 2020. 

And it’s time for you to do the same..